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Myrna · 07-01-2012, 05:01 PM

"My fiance doesn't like my curls. When we first met I always straightened my hair and did so for the first three years of our relationship, only wearing it curly on a rare occasion, but it was doing so much damage and didn't grow for over a year. Finally, I got fed up and started going back to my curly roots... but my fiance doesn't like it.

He's told me that I am more attractive with straight hair and that I should wear it curly only 20% of the time. When we are going to have a "date night" he asks me to straighten my hair. It makes me feel very, very unattractive when my hair is natural."

I am sorry I cannot use the quote feature. Chrystal, if you re-read what you wrote, your words clearly indicate your fiance does not like your curly hair. If I, or we, misunderstood, it is because we read that he doesnt like your curls, wants you to wear it curly only 20% of the time, and wants it straight on date night. If that is not what you meant, please re-read what you wrote. In any case, it sounds to me like this has become his issue as well as yours.

07-01-2012, 05:01 PM	#48
Myrna Join Date: Jun 1999 Posts: 1,838	"My fiance doesn't like my curls. When we first met I always straightened my hair and did so for the first three years of our relationship, only wearing it curly on a rare occasion, but it was doing so much damage and didn't grow for over a year. Finally, I got fed up and started going back to my curly roots... but my fiance doesn't like it. He's told me that I am more attractive with straight hair and that I should wear it curly only 20% of the time. When we are going to have a "date night" he asks me to straighten my hair. It makes me feel very, very unattractive when my hair is natural." I am sorry I cannot use the quote feature. Chrystal, if you re-read what you wrote, your words clearly indicate your fiance does not like your curly hair. If I, or we, misunderstood, it is because we read that he doesnt like your curls, wants you to wear it curly only 20% of the time, and wants it straight on date night. If that is not what you meant, please re-read what you wrote. In any case, it sounds to me like this has become his issue as well as yours. Last edited by Myrna; 07-01-2012 at 06:03 PM. Reason: trying to make the post more legible.