Now I don't let it air dry anymore whitout wearing a knot, because it always get so frizzy! After the leave-in conditioner I let it dry in a knot... So no gel anymore. I noticed that the gel was the reason my hair felt so gunky (i'm not shure that's the right word.. I mean like, stiff, disgusting, full of product?).
@ earthnut: I have fine to medium thick hair and it's really damaged/porous and dried out because of me bleaching it way to much (like, 2 years, painting/bleaching it once a month). It's 2c/3a hair I guess, and I'm not shure about the elasticity. How do you know? And what means 'density'? I have the same biggest enemy as you: frizz!