I think you overconditioned after your last PT. The overly soft frizz & looser curl pattern are classic symptoms of OC'ing, which would undo anything the PT did for you. If your hair didnt feel strawlike or too rough when you rinsed the gelatin out, you were probably fine
I'd try it again, especially if your hair is fine, & be less afraid of it
and go with a lighter conditioner as an RO after the PT.
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