My friends and I were discussing "hair" one evening and the topic of "nappy" came up. My friend heard the term at work and didn't know what it meant. I explained the positive and the negative meanings of the word. Her sister then said she usually hears it around black women who have their hair relaxed, and it begins to revert back.

I thought that was interesting! I never heard the term "nappy" being used to describe relaxed hair needing a touch-up.
Mod CG-Naturally Highly Porous and Dry
This list is not exhaustive...
Pre-treat:various oils

Shampoo/
Clarifier:various
PT: Gold Medal's Herbal Tame
DT:
Smooth Sexy Hair Sulfate-Free Smoothing Conditioner
LI/Detangler: AG Fast Food/OH Juices and Berries Hair Tonic
Stylers: Lush Zeste Hair Gel, CURLS Blueberry and Passion Fruit Control pastes

*experimenting and loving it!