Rou, I worry about myself too sometimes. This is such a damaging relationship. But I feel totally powerless to change it. It makes me feel horrible.

I wish she would just leave. I clearly am not capable.

Thank you for your kind thoughtful words.

Mix of 3s, thick, coarse, medium porosity

Current hair styling technique: rake with a scrunch at the end. (works with my coarse hair)

http://public.fotki.com/curlymix/
pw: curls

Known HGs: KCCC, homemade fsg, honey