I decided to date casually about two years ago and I've been having fun hanging out, meeting people, and just enjoying myself.
I am always upfront about my intentions and have even been blunt to the point of rudeness.
I don't find that it's hard for me to be casual, but I do find that it's hard for the men I've met to be casual. They always call/text too often, and start to get emotional after a while which really pushes me away.
If I wanted all that emotional noise, I would already be married again! LOL
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