Definitely stop blowdrying and flat ironing
!! If you must blowdry, are you using a diffuser?
I've never used the Burt's Bees stuff so someone else can chime in on that. I've used the Giovanni Triple Treat and love it (just hate the bottle as it's hard to get the last bit of stuff
I would clarify, deep condition, and as for drugstore products, there's several you can try that are popular around here.
*Clariol Herbal Essence gels (Body Envy, Set Me Up, or Totally Twisted)
*L'Oreal Out of Bed Instant Texture
*Aussie Tizz No Frizz
There are some Garnier Fructis products that are good but do have a cone so they're not totally CG:
*Soft Curl Cream
*Weightless Volume XXL Gel (not mentioned much here but I've used it and love it)
Cheap conditioners, mainly Suave or VO5, are great to use for "washing" and the Garnier Fructis conditioners (mainly the Sleek-n-Shine or Curl-n-Shine along with their matching conditioning leave-in cremes) are good.
A microfiber towel that you can get in the auto section at Walmart is excellent for curly/wavy hair (doesn't "grab" the hair like regular terrycloth towels do).
Hope this helps and I know some other curlies will offer their tips.