#1: moving back to cones and sulfate
I have found that my hair does much better when I use a sulfate shampoo. Recently have been using Infusium 23 frizz control leave in and it does have amodimethicone. Have gotten stronger waves. Oh and my hair loves coconut oil. I use the coconut oil pre poo and sometimes smoothe it over the canopy to help with any frizz or misbehaved hair! BTW my hair is actually dark brown, with quite a bit of gray. The lighting plays tricks with my color.