sounds like you need a nice simple routine. i just use conditioner and oil as styling. do/can you use any oils? im in germany and have trouble as well to find products that are cheap and good and natural! feel like im going in circles sometimes!

my hair: 3b, high porosity, high density and coarse hair (i think i finally figured that all out)
my hair loves conditioner only styling!
Oils and my own procuts are my hairs best friend
my hair goal length is bra strap length when curly.