Lately I've given up gel because I've been trying to find a way to control my hair with drugstore products without making it hard/crispy/crunchy. So far a mixture of mousse, leave-in conditioner, and hairspray has been somewhat working. What about LOOB? Does that keep your hair soft? A lot of people have been talking about it. (I'm half white, half black with 3b/3c hair, and you can only tell it's a bit 4a if you touch it)
I like work. It fascinates me. I sit and look at it for hours.