It's been my experience (I'm 46 and have dealt with her type more times than I care to count) that they are usually trying to surround themselves with as many "real" black people as possible (as bait for black men), often use typically black colloquialisms/slang/"accents" that they were not raised with, and you DQ'd yourself from that group by dating a white man. This type of woman also doesn't like light-skinned black women like me because we aren't "black enough" for them (if you can believe that ish) and often use any biracial children they have from previous relationships as "bait" for attracting other black men--sort of a marketing tool. Oh, yes, I have experienced it firsthand SEVERAL times. This type of woman, while she likes to duplicitously surround herself with black female friends, also typically considers herself to be better and more desirable than black women to black men, and she'll laugh about this with her white friends behind her black "friends'" backs (yes, I've experienced this as well.) That you have a white SO was likely intimidating to her and that you probably weren't going to be good "black man bait" for her.

Does anything I've said describe that woman?

Please note that I did not say "all" nor do I mean this to include all non-black women in or open to relationships with black men--I'm talking about a specific type of woman, and we all know them when we encounter them. My husband is white, I am part-white, and I have no issues with interracial relationships AT ALL. My son is multiracial and his girlfriend is Chinese. I couldn't care less about that--except that her parents hate my son's ethnic makeup--even when they thought he was just a "dirty filipino."

I'm simply giving my anecdotally-based opinion of this particular woman and women I believe to be like her. This is the kind of woman who others often describe as "trying to be black" or "acting black."