LOOB isn't crunchy or hard at all.
Loreal Studio Tightly Wound spray gel is another good one for soft flezible hold. The two work well together too.
All the Studio stuff is BOGO at Walgreens so it's worth a shot. They're pretty good about taking stuff back or exchanging as well.
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