Umm.. I think you should appreciate your hair and work with it not against it, but that's probably not what you want to hear since you posted this.

Anyways, here's what I heard works for some:

-MSM can help hair growth and for some, loosen curls.

-Coconut milk/cream + lime

-Coconut milk + lemon

-Baking soda rinse/paste

-Brushing can disrupt curl pattern..

Anyways, I don't know if any of those work.. Cuz I'm trying to avoid loosening mine..