I know your daughter doesn't want to cut her hair but if it's damaged she really should. There's nothing that can be done for damaged hair except cutting it off. I had to cut mine but I was ok with it. My hair looked like a hot mess and I wanted to start CG with a clean slate to get the most healthy hair possible.
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