have you tried sealing your hair with an oil after you wash? that helps me as well with dryness n stuff. i got a massive collection of oils and just routate depending on my mood or what i think my hair feels like. i do this every time my hair gets wet. washing, shower, pool etc.

my hair: 3c, high porosity, high density and coarse hair (i think i finally figured that all out)
my hair loves conditioner only styling!
my hair goal length is bra strap length when curly.

I also blog about my hair journey, please feel free to read and comment/ask questions http://www.naturallycurly.com/blogs/...air-blogs/2494