i use a hand made conditioner that i got at like a market and oil, coconut, argan mac nut or aprecot oil does it for me.

my hair: 3b, high porosity, high density and coarse hair (i think i finally figured that all out)
my hair loves conditioner only styling!
Oils and my own procuts are my hairs best friend
my hair goal length is bra strap length when curly.