The girl in the YouTube pictures looks like she has pretty thick hair, and her bangs still have a lot of body. Even though her bangs are straightened, they're not flattened out to be totally straight, so they blend in. I think her
hair looks great!
When I read your first post, I was picturing something like the attached photo. I think that style looks awkward.
3b, Coarse, Low Porosity, Desert Climate
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