Maybe your hair needs milk protein or vegetable protein. I think they can be hydrolyzed for better absorption in hair, like they are for digestion. I think the heavier the protein, the harder it is on hair. Maybe gelatin would help!!

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3b/c, Coarse, Low Porosity, Desert Climate
CG since August 2011/Occasionally Modified since 2013
Favorites: Wen Cleansing Conditioner/Coconut Lime Verbena and Spring Orange Blossom, Pure Argan Oil, Pure Coconut Oil,
KCKT, KC Come Clean, Desert Essence Soft Curls Coconut Hair Cream, Eco Natural Curling Cocktail, Desert Essence Hair Defrizzer and Heat Protector