Oh u can do it and not put that neck roll with it. It was a manager that I did it to. Her mission was to attack my confidence in myself to get what she wanted and that's for me to get a relaxer. But see, she got more than she bargained for. This was back in 2007 when I did my BC and being natural was not readily accepted like it is now. All the negative comments are aimed to do is make u feel less confident. DON'T LET THEM.