I like the Structura lotion a lot. It gives definition and shine but very little hold. For hold you need to put a gel over it. I always keep it around. It's expensive but last forever because it's a huge bottle.
I also like the Deep Therapy Masque. It has a cone but it worked well to deep condition my hair. However, there are other deep conditioners that work just as well without cones (if you are avoiding cones).
I also enjoyed Botanical Boost.
I absolutely hate Curl Reform which makes my hair sticky.
If you go to the product review section, you can get a lot more opinions. If you use any of the products, I'd be interested in your result.