I'm a newbie too, but of the items on your to-try list, I have used the L'Oreal EverCreme Intense Nourishing Conditioner and so far am really liking it as a rinse-out conditioner. It is very moisturizing and smells great. Available at drugstores, often with frequent sales, and well worth trying.
2c, fine, extremely dense, color-treated, high porosity. Medium length (longest layer just grazes my shoulders).
mod-CG since 10/12