Honestly, I'm too scared to do either....
2 1/2 years ago, I had a stroke (a brain bleed) and had to have brain surgery. My hair had to be cut off. My hair grows like a "bad weed" - my mother's description. My hair has grown back to past its former length. I know it has no shape but I'm scared I'll screw it up and I'm scared a stylist will hurt my still sensitive head.