I cowash with Suave coconut, I brush Shea moisture curl souffle through with Denman , then i apply BRHG gel. Hair looks great wet but as soon as it dries, the ends poof out . I'm so frustrated because I feel I'm liberal with product there but they still get all poofy, frizzy,dry etc. any thoughts? thanks in advance.
2c/3a

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Best combo so far:
Shea moisture leave-in and BRHG