With some people it's like a knee-jerk reaction to assume that another person is racist/sexist/ageist etc. It's so unfortunate that there is so much real prejudice that people begin to see it even where it doesn't exist.
Screw them and put it out of your mind.
2/c and some 3A. Modified CG.
Highly porous. Color over grey.
Best 1st day method: Super Soaker
Conditioners: Curl Junkie Beauticurls Strengthening Conditioner,
Deep condish: Curl Junkie Curl Rehab
Stylers: Experimenting with cones & sulfates while the dews are high. Sometimes try roller sets - classic glamor but I prefer my curls.
Every day is a gift