With some people it's like a knee-jerk reaction to assume that another person is racist/sexist/ageist etc. It's so unfortunate that there is so much real prejudice that people begin to see it even where it doesn't exist.

Screw them and put it out of your mind.
2/b maybe 2/c. Coarse hair med. density.
Protein sensitive but can use occasionally
Highly porous. Color over grey.
Best 1st day method: Smasters!
Stylers: Mix Curls in a Bottle into everything for shine. Terrible pj
Sometimes try roller sets or use a curling brush - classic glamor.
Every day is a gift