Sorry about that. My phone/app is being terribly weird.
With that diagnosis, and estimate, I do not blame her. Home is where most people would want to be, and I am sure everyone wants to spend as much time with him as they possibly can. Just keep a home aid (or hospice) in mind if it becomes too hard for your grandmother. I know being a caregiver can be mentally and physically exhausting.
Again, I am so very sorry. I am/will be thinking of you and your family.
When I hear terms like "hipster" I think, who told cliques they could leave high school??