You know, when you ask me what you can do and I say "watch the kids", I am not speaking in code. It really and truly means to watch the kids. It does not mean to say okay and than proceed to clean things up and ignore them. And then get mad because I am not giving you a medal for getting cleaned up.
I had to stop doing what I was doing, (dinner and cleaning the kitchen) multiple times to referee and comfort. Things I asked YOU to take care of.
You made piles of things, one of which is dishes on the floor, that you expect ME to clean up. The top of our shelf was all cleaned off. Now there is crap on it. Thanks for cleaning.