Thank you so much Fmasuhr, I will definitely try a sulphate shampoo and check my argan oil! I have a feeling it's not the pure stuff.
Maddy, thats fantastic, I've never heard of some of these techniques which is exactly what I wanted because I was feeling like I was trying it all and could never find and new information that I didn't know. I'm going to have to run out and buy a bunch of this stuff, I also need more cotton t-shirts ;p I'll try your method, minus the hair dry(I don't even have one if those anymore!) and get back to you.