I find that the shea moister coconut hair milk helps with this. I wash, condish WITH THE ENTIRE LINE then apply it as a leave in that's what took care of it. Also kimmaytube conditioner helped TREMENDOUSLY. i love that water literally drips from my ends when i do this; my hair dries well and stays moist all week!
to add i re braid @ nite to preserve both curl pattern and moister.
prior to discovering shea moister products i did other things that helped. like spritz ends with water then apply castor oil results are great! also sealing with melted shea butter helps too.
I had this issue when I first became natural and i hated it! i tried everything and nothing seemed to work. But as i gain more knowledge about how to treat my hair I mastered this issue. it took me while to find the rite product so dont be frustrated. Just focus on moisturizing those ends when caring for your hair the ends should be #1 priority. HTH