Youssef, moisture is definately the thing. For styling you might want to try Shea Moisture's Curling Soufflé. Rake a small amount of it to soaking wet hair after washing and run a wide tooth comb, Denman or Tangle Tweezer through. This would clump your curls. Then scrunch the excess water out with a t-shirt. CJ's CC cream and Aloe Fix gel might also work.

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3 a / low porosity / medium texture and density

Two daughters:
3 c / low porosity / fine texture / medium density
4 a / low porosity / fine texture / high density