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Old 11-14-2012, 12:45 PM   #7
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Originally Posted by bcody09 View Post
Being in love is the most amazing feeling. In my case, it developed over time but then one day BAM, I realized I couldn't live without this guy. And that's when I knew. When that person is all you can think about, and you just feel like a better person when you're around them, that's when you know. For me, the fact I could be 100% myself, and not have to hide anything and he still stayed and loved me more helped expedite the falling in love. We also have been able to talk and compromise on everything from when to get married to how much of our salaries go into savings to who gets to pick the houses we live in (he's in the Navy). It's just all been wonderful.
I agree esp with the bolded. And for me in the beginning I can't stay physically separated from him for too long and he feels the same way. I want to see him ALL the time, and when we've spent the the whole weekend together, when I go back home for a couple hours, we start missing each other..he'll text me and tell me to come back now, lol. I'm sure it's different when you live together. I've never lived with a guy I've been in love with so I'm not sure how that goes. I want to touch and hug, kiss and cuddle with him all the time (and I normally hate all those things).

I'm not sure when I realized it but it was gradual. I think he was in love with me early on but didn't tell me because I definitely didn't feel the same way. He's amazing and will to do pretty much anything to make me happy.

But being in love and being compatible in a long term relationship are very different and separate for me. I've been in love before with men(2) that are not compatible with me..and that sucks! I still love them and not any less just because we have differences. I just can't be with them. Current guy and I are so similar on so many things(values, views, habits, etc) and enjoy the same activities that it makes it even better and will hopefully make the relationship last longer.

Oh yea, and being in love is the best high ever.
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