Look into Marie Dean stuff. Her products tend to be very moisturizing and thick and not goopy. At least, that's what I found with the red clover honey leave-in.
I think kathymack has samples of this brand so you can try them out!
Medium texture, normal porosity, normal elasticity, very weak waves.
shampoo: Redken Fresh Curls
rinse out: CJ CR, TN
jellies: UFD's CM, KCCC
gels: CJ CQ, BRHG