Look into Marie Dean stuff. Her products tend to be very moisturizing and thick and not goopy. At least, that's what I found with the red clover honey leave-in.

I think kathymack has samples of this brand so you can try them out!
Coarse texture, normal-high porosity, normal elasticity (Komaza Care), very weak waves
cleanser: Redken Fresh Curls Shampoo, CJ Daily Fix

rinse out: GVP Conditioning Balm, CJ Repair Me, CJ Smoothing

jellies/creams: CR Curl Maker, KCCC, UFD Curly Magic
gels: CJ CQ, BRHG