Look into Marie Dean stuff. Her products tend to be very moisturizing and thick and not goopy. At least, that's what I found with the red clover honey leave-in.
I think kathymack has samples of this brand so you can try them out!
Coarse texture, normal-high porosity, normal elasticity (Komaza Care), very weak waves
cleanser: Redken Fresh Curls Shampoo, CJ Daily Fix
rinse out: CJ Repair Me, CJ A&OO, CJ Smoothing
leave-in: SCE Curl Cream
jellies/creams: UFD's CM, CJ CCCC, SCE FSG
gels: CJ CQ, BRHG