For the older moms and also young 20somethings
If a 21 y/o college student has a car and never keeps up w/ the maintenance (aligning wheels, rotating and replacing tires, oil changes, etc), despite frequent reminders, should the parents just plan to swing by and handle some of this for the child, if the child lives close by? For the sake of safety and convenience? Or is that enabling irresponsibility on the part oft he child?
3b (with 3c tendencies) on modified CG