OMG! I'm sorry that is like the plot of a bad chick flick! Lol that's just horrible!
And I feel u with the unattractive guys. I got that a lot too. And then the really cute ones have issues. That sucks!
Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.