No, he was not. Not even a little.
But already invited me (and my kids, if I had them) over for Sunday dinner yesterday. (I declined.) To a poetry slam this Wednesday and to a friend's bday party this Friday. (Will be a no and a no.) And that was after a steak and lobster first date.
But the fine-as-hell ones, want to kill themselves, don't speak to their mama, tell me I need to be popped in the mouth, need to borrow money, have more than one personality, etc.
He thinks he is impressing me w/ his poetry-writing skills.
(I'm a writer but not really into poetry. And he's not that good.)
And I guess he thinks he "understands" the affair is now equipped to be a great boyfriend and is somehow more self-evolved.
(He just seems bitter.)