I really like Gold Bond Ultimate Restoring. Urea is one of the top ingredients, which is great for skin that flakes. I also love Paula's Choice Slip Into Silk body lotion. The Gold Bond lotion is one that Paula recommends based on research/ingredients ans states that it is one of the most state- of-the-art lotions sold in the drugstore. It does have a light fragrance, though...I do wish it was fragrance- free.
2a/b. I love AOHR!