Yeah....that's like how mine is. And I always wondered when I saw baby pics of myself (hair was shorter) and I just had these really shiny lazy loops that could easily be combed out straight. Just tons of body. So maybe all along I should have gone shorter rather than longer. I just thought maybe damage and mistreatment made my hair so different. So I have just been insanely good to my hair over the years thinking I may get it back. I think I may have to lee it abt shoulder length or shorter from now on. It really helps with drying and styling time.
Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.