For a detangler, sometimes using a thin conditioner that you later rinse out can help.

Please list the products you currently use and your routine.
Mod CG-Naturally Highly Porous and Dry
This list is not exhaustive...
Pre-treatment: Creamed Coconut/Elucence MBC
DT: various
Leave-in:Crece Pelo,Honey Baby Detangler
Stylers:Ouidad Curl Immersion Hi-Defining Custard
Refresher: CURLS Lavish Moisturizer
*experimenting and loving it!