For a detangler, sometimes using a thin conditioner that you later rinse out can help.

Please list the products you currently use and your routine.
Mod CG-Naturally Highly Porous and Dry
This list is not exhaustive...
Winter Regimen
Cowash: various

DT:various
Rinse: Living Proof Curl Detangling Rinse
LI/Detangler: CURLS Cashmere Curls leave-in
Moisturizer: Miss Jessie's Baby Buttermilk
Stylers: various
Sealers: Tamanu oil, OH BSP

*experimenting and loving it!