oh my god, I suddenly feel how my life was when I was that age. Things like that are getting beter when you get older and can make your own desicions!
Maybe you can try if it's okay when you wear your hair up, in a messy bun? You can make something very nice if you just stick some bobby pins in your hair and leave some of the curls in front of your face out of it?
You can also tell your dad that you think it's like he doesn't think you are beautiful, or even accepted just how you naturally are. I think it's quite insulting to say that you have to change something about the way you look!
Bleached-damaged 3a hair. Fine, porous&dry, medium to high density. Goal: growing the painted hair out (I only do some highlights in the out grow every 3-4 months), and have long healthy hair till at least BSL when curly.
loves: CJ products, jessicurl rocking ringlets, prote´n, co-washing, leave-in conditioner, diffusing, air-drying, pineapple method.
hates: glycerin in low dews, bleaching too much
Experimenting with MSM&biotin on the moment
CG since june 25, 2012