Tresemme Nat's and vo5 Shea cashmere both have decent slip for me - and she has similar properties to mine.
She should think about sealing her hair. Mineral oil would be my best suggestion.
J&J detangled is great. Really any baby conditioner should do the trick, and of she's not CG it shouldn't cause any problems with cones, provided she's using "regular" shampoo.
2c/3a/3b, Fine/med, Dense, high porous, & normal elas.
Lo-poo - Renpure Keratin, SMR, Giovanni SaS
clarifying - mix Johnson's H2T with low poo
Co-wash - Suave Nats. clar. or coco.
RO - GVPCB, Ion Eff. Care, TN.
LI - SMR, Cure Care, or RO
Seal - MO or Jojoba
DT - + honey, ACV, & EVOO to SM masque & GVPCB
PT - Gelatin!, CNPF
Styling - FSG, AIF, BRHG, LALS/PS, GF curl spray gel, SM Souffle/Smoothie, LOOB
Oils - MO!, EVOO, jojoba, GSO, SM Elixer, EVCO, VO5 Hairdressing