Thank you everyone! Even though my parents are doing something wrong, I'm glad I'm aware enough to identify this. And make up my own mind. Even if it kid of sucks...

Jas76- I wasn't offended about the abusive thing. It was my fault; I portrayed him in that way. It saddens and dissapoints me that he displayed a disconcerting behavior though, even if it's not going to work on me and thank you for everything and showing concern and trying to make it better-that goes for everyone. You were all super helpful
2c/3a, fine texture, normal porosity, medium-to-thick
Co wash: Vo5 Extra Body
Conditioners: Deva One Condition, GVP CB, Loreal Evercurl
Stylers: Devacurl ArcAngel, KCCC, AG Recoil, Iso Bouncy Creme, Ecostyler Krystal, CCCCL, KCKT
Low Poo: Devacurl NoPoo, GTTT
Hair likes: plopping, diffusing, SMaster's, coconut and argan oil, honey, protein
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