Might want to check this wiki page out, it might help to inform you on why your father is acting in this terrible fashion...often, the best way to deal with/counteract these actions is to understand the root cause of the behaviour...
Emotional blackmail - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Finer, mixed with coarser strands, low-porosity, wavy curly whirly hair...3A, 2C hair. Medium thickness, medium elasticity.
S-shaped hair with corkscrew ends. My hair is even more confused than me ;p
My hair officially hates protein
Once a month is enough!
Currently a fan of TiGi products, (rock on, TiGi Curlesque styling creme!) but that will soon change - I am a self-avowed product junkie! Yay!
BIG fan of supersoaker method - thanks Rudeechick!