Good grief, I'll be 44 in 2 weeks, my infant just turned 1 ( he's my 2nd c section in 4 years) , I'm back to healthy prepreg weight ( with no extreme diet or exercise measures) . I work full time and DH was deployed the past year.

I don't have the money and resources JS does, I'm sure she'll be fine. Good luck to her.
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