Your conditioner has dimethicone in it. This prevents moisture from getting into your hair, which is probably why your hair is frizzy when wet, and the conditioner isn't being absorbed.

Spring water (aqua), dead sea water (maris aqua) silt (maris limus), magnesium chloride, chamomila recutita (chamomile) extract, simmondsia chinensis (jojoba) oil, olea europaea (olive) oil, prunus amygdalus dulcis (sweet almond) oil, calendula officinalis oil, daucus carota (carrot) seed oil, daucus carota (carrot) juice, cucurbita pepo (pumpkin) juice, ipomoera batatas (sweet potato) extract, cucumis melo (melon) extract, citrus aurantium dulcis (orange) fruit extract, honey (mel) extract, fragrance (parfum), dimethicone, triticum vulgare (wheat germ) oil, imidazolidinyl urea, cetrimonium chloride, punica granatum (pomegranate) peel extract.

You need to do a clarifying poo (J&J baby shampoo or one of the Suave Naturals shampoos or VO5 Herbal Escapes shampoos would work fine for about $1/bottle), and use a different conditioner.
Peace,
Morgan

Baby Fine 3B, low porosity, normal density and elasticity
CGing since July 2008