I've found that where I use cones in my routine has a bigger impact on how my hair feels than which cones I use. I can use cones in styling products without any issues (even dimethicone- MorrocanOil Curl Defining Cream is one of my favorite non-CG products). But my hair hates cones in my cleansers or conditioners. Even amodimethicone. First day my hair looks and feels great, but it's all downhill from there.

Modified CG since 11/5/11
CLEANSE: VO5 Vanilla Mint Tea Clarifying, DevaCare No-Poo, CHS Treatment Shampoo
RO: DevaCare One Condition, SS Caitlin's Conditioner, Mop Top Daily Conditioner
LI: SS Repairing Protein Treatment, CHS Silk Leave-In
STYLE: Re:Coil, Curl Keeper, Deva Ultra Defining Gel, Curls Rock Amplifier and Strong Hold Mousse, Sweet Curls Elixirs Okra Gel and Hard Hold Gel, SS Curl Enhancing Jelly and Firm Hold Gel