I swear I cannot use leave in! But since it's been cold my hair is soooo flyaway and won't hold style. I need your help. Every leave in I try seems to make my hair feel coated and gross no matter how little I use. Can Anyone recommend something to me? I stay away from silicones and polyquats.

Thanks!
2b/c wavy modified CG since July 2012
medium texture, normal porosity, normal elasticity
hair likes protein, doesn't like oils, easily OC'd

low poo: JCHCC, CJGCS
RO/co-wash/LI: YTCarrots, DB Pumpkin Seed
stylers: a bunch of stylers that are all pretty much the same (KCCC, UFDCM, CRCM, CKCJ) or ArcAngel if I need more hold
DT/PT: CJRM, CNPF