Poor baby. My daughter told me she has the same problem. She also is 13. Her hair is 3a in front and a combo of 3b&c throughout the rest of her hair. The kids at school and in the neighborhood loves to touch her hair and ask her race. She says it's worse when the kids see me. We are African American. Just have type 3 hair with multicolored eyes. I tell her to move when they try to touch her hair and let them know that they can't touch her hair. That's really all you can do.