How long has it been since you clarified? Maybe your hair is somewhat sufficated by all the treatments you gave it.
It might help to start over by clarifying, then you could take a nailtip of coconut oil (or another oil that you like) rub it between your hands and smooth over and scrunch in your soaking wet hair to seal moisture in. Then style as usual. That is something that works for me. Hopefully it works for you as well