i think that there is somthing wrong with your grape seed oil as well. mine looks more like the olive oil. yes i do see the little bits in the oil, so i dont think that its quiet right.

my hair: 3b, high porosity, high density and coarse hair (i think i finally figured that all out)
my hair loves conditioner only styling!
Oils and my own procuts are my hairs best friend
my hair goal length is bra strap length when curly.