I found a person in my area who knows how to cut curly hair.

That's a plus. People like that are hard to find and she did great job.

But she can't style it....naturally. I asked her how to get more defined, natural curls, and she ended up curling my hair with a curling iron...

I...DON'T put heat on my hair. Ever.

She also misjudged how curly my hair is. She said "it's not that curly," but after not being trimmed in a month, and losing a lot of my hair with depression, and having it damaged in other ways, my hair isn't top notch. I get super small ringlets underneath, and super-tight but large s-waves in the back and top. Not that curly? Yeah right.

Rant post over.