Welcome, carrie.colli! I definitely understand your frustration. So many links... hahah

looks like mhen76 is steering you in the right direction (thanks mhen76!). We don't have similar hair textures, but I always recommend clarifying the hair just to start off fresh. CurlySuzy Q&A: Looking For a Clarifying Shampoo

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